I make it home most days before 3 pm and have a chance to hang out with my family. Family is the one thing I have taken for granted over the years. Maybe because I come from such a small one that I fail to see how important this time really is as I have come to expect it. Could it be that growing up in a house with just two adults could warp my perspective on home life? Was I just another little adult? Perhaps. Now that I have my own tiny family I see how important just hanging out is. I also see how lucky I was to grow up in such a loving household. I love to come home and I love to come home to one that is now my own. After a bad marriage, countless family health concerns, and losing most of the family I finally just smile when final destination is my driveway.
I am thankful everyday that I have had the insight and the drive to simply follow my heart. Call me selfish, crazy, or driven. The rat race is still being run by my father. He's my hero, my role model, and my reminder that work can provide many things in life but can also take all of the valuable time you had to enjoy the fruits of your labor. That's why for him and for the furry waggle butts that greet me every evening... I work. I put my heart into my work. I will work until you tell me I can't work anymore and I need to go home. If that work ensures me the ability to go to my favorite place and to keep it safe and perpetuating then I win. If the job feels less like work, more like an adventure, and they pay me... Even better! I encourage you to take a risk, put in that application, network, meet new people, love those who become your friends, say "yes" and just put yourself out there. What do you have to lose? Nothing. On the other hand, if you don't do any of these suggestions what will you end up doing? Nothing. See! Go on now, change your life!!
